Sharing the 3 Principles with groups
An online programme of exploration, support and mentoring

SHARING THE UNDERSTANDING KNOWN AS THE 3 PRINCIPLES
If you have come across the 3 Principles, it has impacted you and now you are interested in sharing this understanding with groups or perhaps you are already doing that, with your clients, through social groups or online groups such as on Facebook then this programme may resonate for you.
WORKING WITH GROUPS IN A ‘TRAINING’ OR ‘HELPING’ ROLE
Or you may already work with groups though your work isn’t specifically about sharing the 3 Principles. If you are interested in exploring how your own understanding can impact what and how you deliver in other ‘training’ settings then this programme is also for you. As life works the same way whether we are sharing that or not, it is a fascinating area to see how our understanding can help us get better at what we do.
Former participants come from a range of backgrounds including: mediation, marriage counselling, nursing, illustration, financial services, career coaching.
ABOUT JULIET FAY
I am your host and facilitator and I currently have a foot in both camps. I facilitate conversations aimed at sharing the understanding known as the Three Principles with members of a mental health charity and in an online forum and I run marketing workshops on a range of topics such as email marketing and dealing with customer complaints for the rural and tourism sector in the region. So I hold a unique position and am keen to explore how this plays out for myself and for others. See more about me in the blurb towards the end of the page.
You are invited to join the third edition of this programme with like minded, curious folk to share learning, insights and experiences around sharing the 3 Principles.
QUESTIONS AROUND SHARING THIS UNDERSTANDING
Some of the questions that come up are:-
- How do we deepen our grounding?
- How do we listen deeper?
- How do you get out of your thinking?
- What about tools, techniques and protocols from other fields?
- What do you call it: the Three Principles or something else?
- Being impactful versus impressive
- Is there a role for sharing the 3 Principles when it’s not your brief?
- Do you recommend or use Sydney Banks materials?
- How do we point people towards their own knowing?
- How do we cultivate more connection?
- What if we are still struggling with issues in daily life? How can we share and be authentic?
- The perils of blind spots and sharing what we want to see versus what we know to be true (often innocently done)?
- How do we facilitate our own wisdom?
- How to get started sharing with groups?
EXPLORATION, DISCOVERY, DEEPENING OUR GROUNDING
While this programme does not aim to give definitive answers to these types of questions, it aims to explore these questions within the group to see what arises. Ultimately sharing this understanding happens in ways that are unique to you, yet the experience on this programme is intended to help point the way to deepen your own understanding of the Three Principles and shine a light on how to share in groups that works for you. As our experience is ever-evolving, this group is also there to support people to get out and begin sharing as ultimately that is the best way to learn.
DRAWING OUT THE GROUP WISDOM
This is an experimental programme aiming to create a supportive community of those sharing the 3 Principles with groups, hosted by me and aiming to draw on our collective experience, draw out wisdom from the intention to bring this understanding to a wider audience in whatever way shows up for each of us and that will vary.
THERE IS ALWAYS MORE TO SEE
What I have seen from running this programme is the mysterious and powerful ways in which gathering to explore our experience of how life works and who or what we really are informs our understanding of how to share and brings more ease and flow around the work whether we are just starting out sharing the Three Principles, an established facilitator or working in another field.
Dates and Times
The calls are 1.5 hours at 7.30pm until 9pm GMT, London time. Check the time where you are. After registering you will be sent invitation to the zoom calls. See the FAQs for more information about Zoom.
Dates
Tuesday 5 June 2018
Tuesday 12 June 2018
Tuesday 19 June 2018
Tuesday 26 June 2018
Tuesday 3 July 2018
Tuesday 10 July 2018
Here’s what previous participants have to say:-
“I have taken two of Juliet’s online programmes and really loved them. What drew me to them in the first place was the small group size number. I felt that would offer much more opportunity for me to participate fully and be able to engage directly with the facilitator (Juliet) rather than being one of 50 or 100 people, which felt much more anonymous. Juliet created such a safe and accepting space where each person had the opportunity to talk through what was up for them that particular week. What I liked best about it, was her ability to listen and hear way beyond what I was saying and then reflect that back to me in such a gentle and supportive way, which also challenged me to look in a different direction.
I learned a lot about listening differently which I’ve been able to apply to my own work as a Mediator and it really has shifted the energy I have with, and towards my clients. One phrase that has stuck with me was ‘what we do matters much less than where we do it from’. Juliet is an expert at pointing towards another direction that sees past the ‘problem’ or ‘problem person’ and instead looks deep into their soul and points to their own inner quiet and wisdom. I would definitely recommend one of Juliet’s programmes, not to be missed for anyone trying to deepen their understanding of the Principles.”
I thoroughly enjoyed my time in the course with Juliet Fay on sharing from the 3 Ps with groups.
Each and every call allowed me to experience the good feeling of being seen and heard and drawn out. While the content centered on sharing in groups from that grounded perspective, the experience of being in the group with Juliet and the others spoke the content the loudest and clearest.
As a learning experience, this surpassed what you might anticipate. The insights and good feelings and deepened clarity all join in one spot that moves along to become integrated.
Juliet truly walks the walk of a kind, centered spirit. Allow her to be your guide.
I can say that it was a pleasure working with you on getting more clarity around the 3Ps. Your amazing listening skills and gentle nature made me feel right at home. I walked away from the experience with more insight, understanding and gratitude for having participated!
Premium Package
Sharing the 3 Principles with Groups- 6 x 1.5 hour live zoom calls
- 6 x video recordings of the live calls for private use
- 6 x audio recordings of the live calls
- Recommended ‘reading’ list
- FREE
- Invitation to a closed private Facebook group for community discussion
- STANDARD BONUS
- Video and audio recording of: Showing not telling: the overlooked impact of our presence – a zoom call recorded Wednesday 20th December 2017 (value £33)
- PREMIUM BONUSES
- Audio recording download: How a peaceful easy feeling invites healing – 27 minutes (value £19.99)
- A 60 minute 1:2:1 tele-call with Juliet to be taken any time during the programme to explore a topic of your choice (value £80.00)
- Queries? See the FAQs at the bottom of the page. Further questions? Please do email me.
- When you register for the programme (by hitting the BUY NOW button) you accept the Terms and Conditions and Booking policy at the bottom of this page
Standard Package
Sharing the 3 Principles with Groups- 6 x 1.5 hour live zoom calls
- 6 x video recordings of the live calls for private use
- 6 x audio recordings of the live calls
- Recommended ‘reading’ list
- FREE
- Invitation to a closed private Facebook group for community discussion
- STANDARD BONUS
- Video and audio recording of: Showing not telling: the overlooked impact of our presence – a zoom call recorded Wednesday 20th December 2017 (value £33)
- Video and audio recording of the PREMIUM BONUS early January tele-call
- Queries? See the FAQs at the bottom of the page. Further questions? Please do email me.
- When you register for the programme (by hitting the BUY NOW button) you accept the Terms and Conditions and Booking policy at the bottom of this page.
By clicking BUY NOW you agree to the Terms, conditions and cancellation policy
Terms and conditions including cancellation & refund policy
Terms and conditions
Every effort has been made to accurately describe this programme and its potential. What each individual will discover from this experience is unique to them and no specific outcome can be guaranteed. This programme facilitates an educational conversation and exploration into pointing others towards their own resources. It does not offer a methodology in the traditional sense and there are no guarantees offered. Nor can any liability be accepted by Solcare or Juliet Fay for any loss or damage that occurs as a direct or indirect result of your participation in this programme and you accept this in perpetuity.
Booking Conditions
A place on the programme is not guaranteed until you receive written confirmation and advance full payment has been received or a deposit payment has been made where a payment plan is agreed in writing by Juliet Fay of Solcare.
Confidentiality
By registering for a group programme with Juliet Fay of Solcare you agree to respect the confidentiality of all involved and not to share people’s personal stories outside of the group.
Refunds and cancellations
From the time of booking you have 14 days to cancel (for any reason) for a full refund if the programme has not yet started.
Once the programme has started no refunds or partial refunds will be given.
Cancellation by Juliet Fay of Solcare
If, owing to exceptional circumstances, the training has to be cancelled or re-scheduled by Juliet Fay of Solcare, you will be offered a full refund or, if you prefer, the option to transfer your registration to another training of the same type and cost when available.
Recordings & Copyright
Juliet Fay of Solcare reserves the right to record any part of the programme in any format, and all rights to such recordings will remain the sole property of Juliet Fay of Solcare
No other recordings are allowed unless previously agreed in writing with Juliet Fay. All training materials are copyright and are for the sole use of participants in the programme on which you are registered.
FAQs online programmes
FAQs
Are there any additional costs?
The technology we will be using to run the programme can be free to use for participants. For the Zoom meetings, there is no cost to join from a computer, smartphone, or tablet. If you participate by phone, it is possible that you will incur long distance charges.
Dates and times
Solcare is based in the UK which is on GMT time (the same as London). If you are in a different time zone, please check the time where you are for any scheduled video-conference calls. The World Meeting Planner Clock is a handy tool. Check regularly as times can be affected by changes for Daylight Savings Time.
What is Zoom?
Zoom is a videoconferencing platform similar to Skype, but it has a few more options for the host. The free Zoom software runs on Macs and PCs and on smartphones and tablets using Android, iOS (Apple), or Blackberry operating systems. Once you sign up you will get an email with a link to the calls. If you have never used zoom before it is best to allow 10 or 15 minutes before the first call, as you will be asked to download an app to your phone, tablet or computer. You don’t need to set up an account to join a meeting.
Audio and visual
It is strongly recommended that you use headphones during the calls. Headphones that work with smartphones are generally okay. It helps improve the audio for the other participants. The host can mute people which is sometimes necessary to cut down on background noise. You have the option to show yourself on video or not. If you prefer not to be seen at times, that is fine.
Will the live zoom calls be recorded?
These will be recorded and a link to the file sent to participants for you download. These recordings are for your own private use.
Paying in other currencies
NB The button takes you to a Paypal page where you can enter the amount you would like to pay in UK GBP. To check the exchange rate if your home currency is not UK GBP, check live values with this currency converter. Paypal can usually handle currency conversion if you are paying in a currency other than UK GBP. If you have any difficulties, please email me.
Ready to sign up?
Please read the Terms and Conditions and Cancellation policy before you click BUY NOW for the option you prefer or if you have any questions, please use contact form to email me and ask. I look forward to having you join this programme.
More about Juliet Fay

Juliet Fay. Photo © Hugh Harris 2017
I am Juliet Fay, a Marketing Geek and Three Principles Facilitator helping individuals, social care workers and social entrepreneurs find more ease and flow in life and work. I’ve spent over 10 years providing training, coaching and mentoring in marketing and copywriting for micro entrepreneurs, public sector workers, charity workers and individuals. Since March 2017 I’ve been sharing the understanding known as the Three Principles with groups at Llanelli Mind Welcome Centre where people are being impacted in profoundly moving ways. I also offer private programmes, events and 1:2:1 sessions and co-facilitate with others in this field.
I continue to enjoy being a student as well as sharing what I see. My learning has included hearing from these wonderful teachers and working with some wonderful people from around the world:-
- One Solution Conference, Oslo, May 2016
- Short programmes with Mary Schiller April/May 2016
- Art of Living online course with Molly Gordon, Shaboom Inc
- Volunteer with Beyond Recovery Prison Programme working in HMP at Onley
- 9 month Insight Space Facilitator Training with Ian Watson and Carol Boroughs
- Volunteer Three Principles facilitator MIND (mental health charity) Llanelli Welcome Centre, Mar – Dec 2017
- 3PUK Conference, London, May 2017
- Jun 2017 – ongoing – private programmes and 1:2:1 conversations around the Three Principles, Marketing and Sharing the Principles with groups.
- Three Principles School, Salt Spring Island, Canada with Chip Chipman and Elsie Spittle June 2017
- Volunteer host Facebook community: LOVE YOUR LIFE AGAIN (Moods & how to survive them), 200+ members
- Community Leadership Workshops with Judith Sedgeman & the Centre for Sustainable Change Autumn 2017
- Small group mentoring programme by Carol Boroughs of Signposts October/November 2017
- Three Principles facilitator MIND (mental health charity) Llanelli Welcome Centre, Jan 2018 – ongoing
- Participant in Soul to Soul Conversations with Dr Rita Shuford (February to May 2018)
- Small group mentoring programme by Carol Boroughs of Signposts March/April 2018